Thanks to the internet, everyone can read, learn from, and share these stories. Silence can be broken, people can see that they are not alone, and hopefully a better understanding of sexual and gender orientations can begin to break down the fears so many people have about these typical teens who are so much more than who they love or how they present themselves.
Her opening paragraph sums it up quite well:
“Today, we live in a generation where everything is not what it used to be. Today’s teens want things bigger, better, and faster, with a constant need to be entertained and fascinated. If these criteria aren’t met, it just seems wrong. With this fast-paced generation out there one question comes to mind: Do parents really understand what it’s like to be a teenager during these rapid changing times?”
The rest of her article goes on to somewhat blame adults for a youth’s need to have everything right here and right now. To some extent, I can perceive this as “typical” adolescence, where a somewhat developmentally egocentric mind feels that her problems are larger than life, and not her fault. But, then again, Ms. Smith has a point — as she writes, teens did not make all this new technology: adults did. And, most of the marketing and hype that has been generated around all these new gadgets is the product of adult minds whose primary goal is to sell things to teenagers by convincing them that it’s essential to participate and purchase in this new technological world. And, given that teens are socialized to believe that fitting in and looking good matter …is it their fault that they buy into the madness? Smith states, “As teens, we can’t control everything around us, and sometimes we have no other choice but to follow what is happening around us…This generation, Generation Z, seems to be completely unsheltered; everything is pushed in our faces and the only choice is to accept it.”
While I am still pondering whether or not teens have a real “choice” as to whether to accept or reject all this technology and its related promotions, I do know that if the thoughts of this teen ring true with many of her peers, then we as adults need to find out how we can best serve these youth by telling them it’s OK to step back, slow down, and ask themselves how this technology can best meet their needs and support their lives.